NWR Tuesday Tips

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• rodeo417

  

  July 2010 edited December 2011

  I just step back and cry to my FI. He then looks at everything and puts it together for while letting me know that its ok and he doesn't want me to stress. Personally, I just say f*ck it and walk away until everything calms down... I don't like stressing..

  

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• missrekaeagle

  

  July 2010 edited December 2011

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_nwr-tuesday-tips-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:d63f02dc-dba2-4f52-be47-cf6bb3a446b8Post:fbae495b-9414-409c-afc9-3bbd53bac2ef">Re: NWR Tuesday Tips</a>:
  [QUOTE]I just step back and cry to my FI. Posted by rodeo417[/QUOTE]
  
  Ditto!

  

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• shaq123

  

  July 2010 edited December 2011

    
  
  When I am overwhelmed , I like to be by myself and write down a plan . If that do not work I call my best friend  and we have a pow woow.  her advise always make then clear for me. My Fi can be great but nothing bother him so it always seem like I am over reacting. ( he's cool like that)

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• prncsz member

  

  July 2010 edited December 2011

  I hit the gym and sweat it out or as pp I cry it out and once I finish I'm ready to tackle whatever obstacle I'm facing. I also pray.

  

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• hisSparklett

  

  July 2010 edited December 2011

  I cry. Sometimes I don't realize how much stress I am really under until I just have the urge to cry. So I cry and cry. Can't help it and I really wish I could stop it.

  

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• KMB611 member

  

  July 2010 edited December 2011

  @ Tyswife2be: I had the same problem a few days ago. My FI tried to be Dr. Phil and tell me that I need to manage stress better. I told him that I have a way of dealing with it because we all have a different way of managing stress.
  
  I take a nap or watch a favorite movie. If it's too bad, I lke being by myself.

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• TNMurray member

  

  July 2010 edited December 2011

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_nwr-tuesday-tips-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:d63f02dc-dba2-4f52-be47-cf6bb3a446b8Post:93288126-d66e-4acc-87e0-1fa051e6678d">Re: NWR Tuesday Tips</a>:
  [QUOTE]   My Fi can be great but nothing bother him so it always seem like I am over reacting. ( he's cool like that)
  Posted by shaq123[/QUOTE]
  
  My fiance is the same way. Somehow his relaxed state of mind make me feel like everything will be alright. I sleep or find something i love todo that takes little thought or effort. Whatever you do you must remove yourself from the stress.

  
  
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• raganw

  

  July 2010 edited December 2011

  I try to take a step back (or a few steps back, if necessary).  Meditation helps too...

  
  I married my soulmate on 10-3-10
  

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• runningbride80

  

  July 2010 edited December 2011

  Vent to my FI or cry if I need to...but my favorite is to just put on my running shoes and go. Doesn't necessarily solve the problem, but it clears my head enough to step back...and tires me out enough not to worry so much.

  
  

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• ufsweetiebear member

  

  July 2010 edited December 2011

  I eat.

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• chayb87

  

  July 2010 edited December 2011

  I hate stressing so I usually do something else to get my mind off of it like watch tv, sleep, read a book...anything.  When I eventually come back to the issue I will have calmed down and I can try to work through it or get some advice.

  

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