It's not just a head count!

MrsLiggett7 · April 2012

I'd like to know WHO is coming to my wedding! Ugh!

My FSIL is driving me FREAKING BONKERS. First off she comes at me a week ago with Aunts and Uncles she forgot to add to our invite list 3 months ago (see previous post), that's after she RSVPed with "and guest TBA (you never know!)" I mean, I gave her a guest because she's my FI sister and I felt I should. But seriously? You're going to leave this guest unnamed until when? The day before?

Now she texts me and says that her Aunt and Uncle that she pitched a fit about not being invited because SHE forgot, are not going to be able to make it, and neither is FMIL's husband (FI step father). So that leaves 3 open seats, right? WTF? No! that does not mean I suddenly have 3 "open" spots!

It turns out FI's grandmother, who had previously declined due to sickness is now able to make it and will be surprising the whole family. That's really great news, but not the best way to break it to me.

So she tells me grandma is coming, but not with who, just two people. "I know you need to know for head count." Well, yeah, but I'd also like to know who's coming to my wedding!