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Really freaking out and hurt..(rant) - **UPDATED**

My cat has been sick the last few days as I mentioned earlier , and today she is even vomiting up mucus with blood mixed it in looks like , so I did the responsible thing and called my work nearly 4 hours before my shift..and of course was yelled at , told she dosent matter because "it's just a cat..it's not like it's your kid who needs you there".

That hurt so much I had to stop myself from crying on the phone - they basically expect me to drop my cat off and come to work and make sales. But if it was my child they wouldn't say anything. I got guilt tripped told they don't have the coverage - that is not my fault you guys are so damn cheap you won't hire what we need! And yes I know it is my responsibility to be there , but do you think I want to take my cat to the vet ? That I want to worry my head off every minute scared to death ?

Maybe it's just an animal to them and I must be this horrible person for actually trying to take care of my cat - because no one in retail cares about anything but the bottom line. In this same week I have been threatened with being fired for not collecting enough email addresses from customers. I know when its on paper its "just an animal" and not asking for any special treatment , I just feel really confused and lost right now and scared..they are the only "kids" I have and most likely ever will.

Sorry in advance for addimg to the post count and being stupid and emotional.
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Re: Really freaking out and hurt..(rant) - **UPDATED**

  • edited December 2011
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  • MidniteRaeMidniteRae member
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    I'm sorry that your cat is sick. I hope everything is okay.
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  • edited December 2011
    Awww tafft.... ***HUGS***

    I know what you mean, my dog was my baby!  Too bad the ex stole him....

    It's ok to freak a little, just remember that animals sense our emotions and that they will echo it back.  The calmer you are, the better she and you will feel.

    Hope she gets better!
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    *hugs*

    Your boss is a douchenozzle - I'm sorry they suck : /
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  • Ana_2985Ana_2985 member
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    I'm so sorry!  I hope your cat gets well soon.
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    Ugh, that sucks. I'm so sorry.  She clearly isn't a pet owner and doesn't understand.  You did the right thing in taking care of your pet.  Good luck with the douchebag boss.
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  • loopy82loopy82 member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm sorry. Maybe you should refer to your cat as your kid from now on.

    I've never really been a pet owner (except for rabbits I got for the fair as a child) so I can honestly say that I just can not fathom the bills and expenses that come with an animal. I do get that people love there animals. It makes sense.

    Good luck and I hope your cat gets better.
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  • hetshuphetshup member
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    This is totally legit Tafft. I'm sorry that she's sick and don't worry about work. That just shows their failure at management not your failure as a worker.
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  • edited December 2011
    Awww... maybe you can take her to the vet and then go to work?  I know a lot of people who have sick pets who do that so that they can be late without missing the entire day of work.  The pet is safe with the vet and can call if anything comes up. 

    Your boss sounds like an a-hole... and you are correct retail revolves around the bottom line (well most business does, but retail cares nothing about it's employees or their families as a general rule).
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  • tafft1tafft1 member
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    Thank you for the kind words. Guinness is my baby , i rescued her from outside my old apartment back in Washington state when the temp was hitting 15 below zero because someone abandoned her. Work has been really getting to me - basically I am getting screwed out of a better position and pay because they dont want to bother giving me the training. Don't take into account the fact I got thrown into the department blind with NO knowledge and had to learn everything on my own time. I took the initiative and learned all I could , studied the catalogs , did my own research , etc.

    Also please ignore on an average month I get 4-8 5 star customer comments about me and also have the highest percentage of catalog sales outside of the catalog department. But none of that matters obviosuly..

    Oh and when FI had appendicits a few months back , they tried to fire me then too saying he wasnt my family since we werent married yet. So i'm not surprised they tried to pull this on me..we are taking her in at 2pm. I will probably still have to go into work at some point and my iphone dosent let me post but will update asap.
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  • edited December 2011
    You poor thing!  Retail totally sucks, I feel for you.  Hope the kitty gets better and everything works out for you!
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    I just want to say thank you again for knowing I have somewhere to go besides FI - who is just as crazy about both my cats and considers them his kids as well - to talk to. It means a great deal to me , more than I can express fully online.
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  • edited December 2011
    My cats are also my babies. There was a day Pouncival was sick- he threw up and kept trying to use the litter box but nothing would come out. He followed me around while I was getting ready for class, and he kept squatting on the floor and looking at me liek "Mom! Something's wrong!"

    I HAD to go to class because there was an exam that day. Josh took Pounce to the vet, but they didn't have time to see him! I had to rush home and pick him up and take him later that day. My poor baby. I was a mess.

    Luckily, he was constipated because of hairballs that he is too prissy to cough up. So it was easily fixed. I hope that your kitty's problem is also easy to fix. Just try to keep calm and wait to see what the vet says. Give Guinness lots of cuddles and love. You don't know anything yet, you've made the appointment. That's all you can do. Hope for the best.

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    edited December 2011
    Sorry, tafft. :(  Big hugs to you and kitty.

    Have you been loooking for another job? I was a manager at a Barnes & Noble for a long time, and I think I'm pretty awesome. I would not give you a hard time about your poor kitty. My FI is also a retail manager, and he makes very good money, AND he is also awesome. (Clearly. Otherwise I, in my awesomeness, would not marry him, right?) Just a thought. :)
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  • tafft1tafft1 member
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    I've been trying for months for a new job..it's just harder than hell in California now it seems..I have redone my resume over and over..I have nearly 16 years retail experience yet can't seem to break into management even though I have the skills , drive and passion for it. I'm not giving up..just frustrated :(
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    Oh Tafft hunny! *hugs* I'm so sorry.  Your boss is a crackhead.  I hope Guinness is okay.  Keep us posted

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    I hope your kitty is okay, Tafft.  Just like Jeana, I also had one of my kitties vomiting constantly...she couldn't keep anything down. Took her to the emergency vet, and they got her hydrated and gave her extra-strength hairball medicine. She was okay the next day. I hope your kitty just has something simple to fix, and she'll be good as new.

    I'm also sorry your boss is a jerk. Some of us just choose to have four-legged fuzzy children, and we should be allowed to take them to the vet when it's necessary.
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  • tafft1tafft1 member
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    Update - She is home now but its not over..they gave her 2 antibiotics and some fluids , she is groggy and miserable I know but am holding out hope she is a rough and tumble kitty and can make it. Basically seems like maybe she ate something possible stuck in her tummy and giving her issues and she has a chance..and well surgery is out of the question..but am hoping for the best.

    Thanks to all for the kidn words , support , and encouragement , I think FI has been more of a wreck than myself if thats possible. He sends his sincere thanks and appreciation.

    EDIT : She is eating now and walking around and even pounced her toy , my other cat Corona is pissed off because poor Guinness smells like other animals and keeps hissing at her but she is being very vocal , affectionate , purring now and even hopped up into her cat tower. Hoping this is a good thing.
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  • edited December 2011
    Tafft, so sorry to hear about all that you're going through.  I wasn't around much yesterday, but I just wanted to say that I'm glad she seems to be feeling better.  I've worked retail for what seems like forever and I know what you mean about them being douchenozzles.  Luckily my last retail job wasn't as bad, but I've had some horrible ones.  I was told at my last job (at a call center, those are worse than retail) that I wouldn't be given any time off to have my wisdom teeth pulled because they needed me at work.  So, I came in a few hours before the surgery, worked 2 hours, left, and the next day was right back at work.  Shocked my supervisor, but what else was I supposed to do?  I couldn't lose my job.  
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    I'm glad things seem to be turning around for the kitty I'll keep my fingers crossed.
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  • tafft1tafft1 member
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    Thanks for all the support again ladies :) She is definitely more herself , meowing and being needy and cuddly and would have it no other way. Just worried still - like any parent would be and determined to take care of her :)
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    I'm glad she's feeling better! I'll keep sending healthy kitty vibes *hugs*
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    I'm so glad your kitty is doing better, sounds like a rough day!  Bosses suck.
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