How do you go about asking your future sister in law if her kids can be in the wedding, and not her?? My fiance's sister is a nut job, and he is just as aware of this as I am, BUT we both really want her kids to be a part of our big day...To be honest, I think we would both be content with not having her there at all. How do we go about this in a nice way??
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[QUOTE]How do you go about asking your future sister in law if her kids can be in the wedding, and not her?? My fiance's sister is a nut job, and he is just as aware of this as I am, BUT we both really want her kids to be a part of our big day...To be honest, I think we would both be content with not having her there at all. How do we go about this in a nice way??
Posted by karlianna777[/QUOTE]
You can easily ask her if it would be OK to have her children in wedding without having her.
You cannot however have her NOT come to the wedding at all. They are her children and she needs to be invited along with them. There is no "nice" way to invite her kids and not her
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You don't need to have the FSIL be in the WP just because her kids are.
You should definitely invite her as a guest.
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[QUOTE]It would be bad enough if this were some random person whose kids you wanted to use, and you didn't want to invite her. But this is the groom's freaking sister. Thinking of not even inviting her is just beyond callous.
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Truth.
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You will be so busy on your wedding day, you will probably hardly even notice she's there.
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