Bachelorette Party...Wearing lingerie?!!

mricher1983 · May 2012

So my bachelorette is this weekend and i've come to discover that my BM's who planned it, want everyone to wear lingerie to a club. FI just confirmed this and I had suspected it as they bought me a gift card to La Senza for my bridal shower and dropped hints.
Now this kind of annoys me because I know for a fact that my sister wouldn't even think about going if she had to wear that (she's my MOH). Let alone all the other ladies invited to the wedding. The only people coming are my two BM's and two of the BM's friends who aren't invited to the wedding.

My BM's should know me well enough that I would never do something like that. I don't think it's appropriate and I don't know why they thought this was a great idea.

Tomorrow, I am suppose to meet them at the store and I think I will ask them to go to the coffee shop first so i can talk to them about it. I want them to know I appreciate them planning it and buying me a gift card but this will make me uncomfortable and will not result in a fun night. Maybe I can compromise and wear something silly but that's too much for me. I really just wanted to go out and have fun why does it need to be so complicated?!

Sorry needed to rant!

SoSaysTara · May 2012

That sounds quite over the top! I definitely think you need to talk to them about it.

acaponi87 · May 2012

This is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. If someone told me to wear lingerie to anywhere outside of the bedroom I'd tell them to F off. And I would be judging the crap out of anyone I saw wearing lingerie in a club, unless they were a stripper. At a strip club.

midgetthemighty · May 2012

They're crazy. Seriously just no.

melntaitt · May 2012

Yeah, there isn't enough liquor in the world to convince me to do that...

L&J2012 · May 2012

Seriously? They know that a lot of lingerie is made to be sheer, right? And that you'd likely be bordering public indecency? Tell them they can wear lingerie if they want, but that you want no part in it. Hopefully they have some respect for your body, and theirs.

kelsey+brandon · May 2012

No, no, no, no, no, and no.

Umm, really? Lingerie is PRIVATE. It's not meant for every random guy to see you in. Is your FI actually okay with that? I'm assuming y'all will be dancing, so pretty much you're level of class that evening will be barely above that of a stripper. Negative.

MMCBRIDE4 · May 2012

That's crazy, I would never think that anyone would want to do that.

peachykeen26 · May 2012

I have seen this done, and I personally think it's a little trashy. Maybe you could do an at home lingerie fashion show then go out to the clubs in LBD's and stripper heels.

daria24 · May 2012

No way in hell would I do it, and I would be so embarrassed to be out in public with a bunch of girls wearing lingerie. I don't think torturing the bride is the goal of a bparty. I would just straight up tell them that you appreciate the night they have planned, but you will be wearing a sexy outfit/dress that was not bought from Fredericks of Hollywood.

michelletobin · May 2012

I agree, I would not be comfortable at all with something like that. I got lingerie at my bridal shower but its for the honeymoon only. I would be so embarrassed and would never wear it out in public. BMs got me a bachelorette shirt that is funny from Spencers, but lingerie. no way.

caitlintaylor07 · May 2012

I'm never even heard of that! No! That's just insane.

Ash61612 · May 2012

there is no way I could do that! they are crazy for thinking that. I still get shy and bashful around FI if I am wearing lingerie, there is no way I could go out in public wearing lingerie

tgerl · May 2012

This can't possibly be true. It is the most ridiculous thing I've every heard of! I've seen a lot of skimpy outfits at clubs, but never this far. I would firmly say NO.