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  • edited December 2011
    Confession : I told my employer that I was visiting my family out of state last weekend...and didn't go. So I got a full 4 days off of work! Whatevs, I needed a break. =P
  • edited December 2011
    My feet are cold.  As in- I'm getting a little freaked out that I am not ready for this.  FI reassures me it's just nerves and everything will be okay.  This started when the invites went out.  BIG reality check there that it's all happening!
    That- and I've hit a slump in my DIY things.  I am going to attempt to get some things done today....
    Happy Friday gals :-)
  • edited December 2011
    Confession: I really haven't been working out lately and I have been baking and eating sweets all the time with my FMIL. I have a dress fitting on Monday and I am sooooo nervous my dress will be tight. When I got it fitted before I was running 3 miles everyday and eating so healthy ahhh why did I stop?
  • cjbwifey2010cjbwifey2010 member
    Fifth Anniversary 500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Ashley... you will be just fine! It DOES make it real when the invites are out and you can't get them back! LOL. Just remember who you're marrying...your honey! Everything will be fine! Put some socks on those cold feet so they can warm up a little! And get out of your DIY slump missy! you have a special something to do for a special bride :)

    Molly-- i feel the same way. we only have 36 days! Yikes. I just hope that it all works out for the both of us! I see my trainer, but its not effective if i eat crap all day...im getting back into the habit of eating right and hope that it will pay off. Remember...hunger is a state of mind! LOL

    I confess that I feel as if there is SO much to do before the wedding gets here and i dont feel as if i have the energy to care about the small details. I stop working on the 14th so hopefully i get re-energized and back on the ball soon! I confess that when people tell me they can't come to the wedding, it really doesn't offend me. I'm trying to cut the guest list down and knowing that Fi's family if from Connecticut and mine from Canada, this is kind of like a destination wedding LOL. So far i think we have like 110 confirmed. If we get to 150 i'm happy. We got a quote for 180 but sent out invites to 250 ppl. I'm glad that it worked out in our favor and that not all of them confirmed LOL.
  • SRivera09SRivera09 member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011

    I confess that I am super stressed!!  I really stressed with this flippin house.  We are trying to come to an agreement with the seller on repairs and he is taking his sweet time.  I know I shouldn't be stressed.  I knew I would have to deal with this process, but still. 

    Plus my mom I guess is ticked at me.  I haven't talked to her since sat. so now she thinks I've "abandoned" her.  Ugh!  She can be so impossible sometimes.

  • edited December 2011
    confession: my grandfather died two days after I got engaged and his memorial is this weekend. I am not attending due to fiances since it is in another state and I have to work. The real confession is I am not sad about it, or him. I barely knew him and think my mom acting sad about it is silly. He wasn't even in our lives really till I was 11 and still it was a distant relationship.  Just don't like fakeness I guess.

    Good confession: I am super excited that my parents are starting to come around and sent me an email asking my faince to stay with them while we visit this august to do vendor appointments and that they now want to contribute in some way. My parents are the type that never let guys stay at the house before, so this is a huge step and is making this wedding more fun for me now! :)
  • edited December 2011
    Jessica- "Hunger is a state of mind" I have to remember that. I know exactly how you feel about the small details. My mom asked me all these questions about details and we are working on a list of stuff to do once I get home and I just have no energy to do it all! I guess once I get there and get into a routine it will all be easier.
  • cjbwifey2010cjbwifey2010 member
    Fifth Anniversary 500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Irish-- my parents are the same way! When we first started coming to family events and such, FI used to stay in a hotel with my sister's boyfriend! Now...everybody comes and stays at the house (my sis is 36 by the way). anywho, he gets his own bedroom, my sis and her bf get theirs (i know...for the longest we slept together until my parents were like "why dont they sleep together...we know they live together lol) and i sleep with my 5 year old goddaughter/niece good times! I cant wait to be married *sigh* then IF for some odd reason we have to stay at my parent's house (which i dont count on happening since we live 15 minutes away) we can sleep in the same bed LOL
  • ashbosityashbosity member
    Fourth Anniversary 100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    I confess that I slept til 2:30pm today. In my defense, I rarely get home from work before midnight and I have been sick, but that's late even for me. I feel like I wasted the day.

    I confess that I need to move on with wedding planning, namely booking a caterer, but I'm worried my parents may not be able to give us the money they promised us, or atleast not in time to get things on track. I don't really have the money for a catering deposit without using a credit card which I don't want to do. FI's parents said they would help, but didn't get into specifics.

    I also confess that I've been on these boards for 5 months and I don't know what AW means.
  • edited December 2011
    Ash, AW = attention whore. ;) And it's probably time to sit down the the parental units and talk specifics. You can't plan anything until you have a solid budget and I'm sure they can appreciate your hesitancy to go into debt. What a responsible daughter they've raised. :)

    I confess that I'm more interested in this butterfly that's about to eclose in my backyard than talking to my students right now...
  • edited December 2011
    cj- oh yeah no way we are sleeping together, though he and we pretty much live together several states away.  He will be staying in the guest room.  I mean even when we first started dating and I would go visit his family in west palm, my parents wanted me to stay at his aunts house and not at his parent's house haha. His family thought it be weird if we didn't stay together so everyone played along that I stayed at his aunt's when I didn't. 
  • kenzie.lee.85kenzie.lee.85 member
    10 Comments
    edited December 2011

    I confess that I'm still s alittle miffed about our invitations, I wanted them done tradtionally with just my parents names on them, it was really important to my dad and my fiance and I have the same last name so it just sounded weird for both of our to be on there. But this was weeks ago I suppose I need to get over it.

    I also confess that I had my interview for a promotion yesterday and half of me is worried that I bombed it. Again something I need to stop thinking about I can't do anything about it.

    I have my dress fitting in six days I lost most of the weight that I needed to but I can't see a difference, so I've been worried that it might not fit.

    Wedding Countdown Ticker
  • edited December 2011
    Kenzie, I can never tell if any weight I've lost makes a difference in the way I look until I put on one of a few telltale pieces of clothing. You'll probably find the same is true for you. Hope that interview results turn out well, btw.
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