So I gues my drama-free wedding planning has come to an end.
Originally, a friend of ours was going to do the photography for us. We decided that we'd have him do e-pics to kind of test the waters. Well, he only ever emailed 2 of them to us and they weren't that great. I was waiting for him to send more, but none were ever sent. Well, we went ahead and booked a professional photographer because we just felt more comfortable.
Now, I haven't heard from said friend since August, until today when he wrote on Facebook (of all places!) that he needs to know what's going on. Yikes! So, obviously now I need to have a conversation with him. I guess I'm wondering what I can say? I'm trying to avoid hurting his feelings as much as possible. Maybe that's not possible? Maybe I should just let FI talk to him? :-) Or maybe I'm just worrying over nothing? Any advice is appreciated. TIA!
Re: Oh, What to Do?
HTH! Good luck!
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I would absolutely have FI handle it if the guy is "his" friend. Men handle things so differently than women.
I would just make sure the message you want your friend to receive is clear, like PP mentioned. Was it the style? Was it the fact that you only got 2 shots? Honestly IS the best policy but try not to hurt his feeling in the process.
Who knows - he might be relieved to be able to be a guest at the wedding and not have to worry about taking pictures all day.
GL - def not a fun situation.
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