I'm having trouble because i want a small wedding in virginia beach.. and i have a huge family.. my fiance Joe is doing just immediate family..(siblings, parents, niece and nephew=18ppl) and our friends list is good at 25 around.. but i'm having trouble with the brides side.. i have only one sister and Joe has five so i decided to add just aunts and uncles..immediate family which equals about 24.. but my moms upset bc im not doing cousins other then the 2 in the wedding party. but i have like 20.. cousins n then adding dates.. irts just to much..im also worried about out of control cousins age 16-20.. that get out of hand.. what should i do? I've been sticking to my guns but.. i dont want to hurt anyones feelings?