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September 2012 Weddings

Jut curious...in regards to the "vote for us" posts...

Since I've noticed a handful of "vote for me" posts popping up on here (which I'm totally ok with from this board and you girls), are we kind of breaking down the FB privacy borders?  I never really had a problem with having a 9.2012 facebook group because I belong to other groups of strangers on facebook and have no problem.  Honestly, one's for working out, another for animal rescues, etc, and never had a problem with anything.  So basically I guess I'm resubmitting the question if anybody has changed their mind about forming a fb group since a lot of fb-related posts have popped up recently and also people are getting more and more comfortable posting things with their last names on the board lately.  

Again, just curious :0)
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Re: Jut curious...in regards to the "vote for us" posts...

  • I'm not against the idea of a facebook group, but I do think it should be a closed group so no randos on facebook can join.  So as long as you request to join the group and can identify your TK name you can get it.  Everyone on the board would have to be welcome, obviously.  I wouldn't want the fb group to be "exclusive."
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    [QUOTE]I'm not against the idea of a facebook group, but I do think it should be a closed group so no randos on facebook can join.  So as long as you request to join the group and can identify your TK name you can get it.  Everyone on the board would have to be welcome, obviously.  I wouldn't want the fb group to be "exclusive."
    Posted by SCogs18[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>This. I am part of a closed FB group for another message board (mommy board) and it works well. It's just the ladies I know from that board and no one, not even FI can see what I post there. </div><div>I agree with the exclusivity part as well; if you're here, you should be welcome there. We don't want any drama... there's enough of that on other TK boards :P

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  • The closed group idea works great. I am a part of both the FB groups for the Christian Weddings board and for the Destination Weddings board and never had a problem with either of them!
  • I thought the closed and non-exclusive things were pretty standard and understood, so I didn't mention it.  So...I tried to start the group just now and it says I need a friend to add to it before it will start the group.  Anybody wanna give me here or in a PM their fb name and I can start it?  Or somebody else can, it doesn't matter to me.  My name is unsearchable to non-friends (career decision), so I have to look for somebody else in order to friend anybody.
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  • I'd help you out but my name is also non searchable, so giving you my name isn't going to help lol
  • Ditto Britt.  Mine is unsearchable unless we have mutual friends.  I could take down the privacy barrier for a few minutes if no one else is available.  Let me know!
  • I'll PM you my name if you still need someone to add to the group to get it started!
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  • mcme just sent you a pm with my info
  • Its a fun way to keep in touch even when TK is being annoying and glitchy lol
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  • If its a closed group it can still be searched, unlike a private group.... so if you tell us what its called after you make it we can search for it and request to be members :)
  • i'd like to join the closed group as well. has it been started?

    i'm unsearchable but i have a specific www.facebook.com/xxxxxxxxx with my "username" so i could give that to you if necessary.
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    Ok, I started it.  I needed somebody to be my actual friend in order to start it, so that's why Katie, you have a request lol.  I thought it would work right off the bat, so I got impatient and added my other friend Katie who is a 9.12 bride and has an account on here but never posts.  She can either stay or delete herself, but I needed somebody.  So...here's a link!  

    Do we have a mod?  Maybe somebody could sticky a link to the fb page at the top so people can join.  *edit* You can request to join, so I don't have to open it to the public at all initially.  Yay for that.

    Does anybody else want to be admin in the group?  I'm pretty available, but if anybody wants to head up that responsibility, I'd be happy to add.


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  • woo! thanks for adding me so quick :)
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  • edited February 2012
    I'd be willing to mod if no one else is up to it. I love the idea as long as it's kept private and The riff-raff kept at bay.
  • I sent the request to join :-)
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  • I just requested to join :)
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    [QUOTE]Speaking of mods, where has SeaTea02 gone?
    Posted by BMcLeodTeam[/QUOTE]



    I was just about to post about the same thing, Britt! I wonder what's
    Happened to her.
  • I never knew if we even had one.  Brit, if it were anybody, I thought it was you lol
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    [QUOTE]I never knew if we even had one.  Brit, if it were anybody, I thought it was you lol
    Posted by mcmeghan311[/QUOTE]



    Haha, I actually thought the same thing when I
    First joined! Britt would be a great mod!!
  • I would love to help be an admin for the group if there's still a need :)

    And I dont want to say anything bad about SeaTea, because life can be super super busy! And you never know what she has going on. But I really do wish she was around more. Britt is our totally capable step-mod ;)
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    [QUOTE]Speaking of mods, where has SeaTea02 gone?
    Posted by BMcLeodTeam[/QUOTE]

    <div>She checked in a few weeks ago and said that life was super hectic, but that she'd try to be around more.</div>
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  • I sent my request as well :)
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