This is going to sound like a horrible post
I have posted about FI aunt being sick - she was in the hospital then was transferred to a hospice facility - which was only supposed to be temporary until we could find a nursing home for her and they could evaluate the level of care she needed.... well she has taken a turn for the worse and is basically in the slow process of dying. She now has no IVs, and they had tried to give her a feeding tube but she tore it out and now her kidneys are shutting down because she is not taking in any fluids and stopped eating several days ago. Bascially once she realized she was not going to be going home to her house ever again she gave up... literally over night we went from planning for her to be transferred to a nursing home to coming to grips with the fact that she will not be with us much longer at all...
The hospice people say it could be anywhere from a few days to a month.... I hope for FI sake it is not that long---
This is where my post gets selfish - sept 28 is 3 days away - i do not want her to die on sept 28. our wedding date is pretty much set - can't shift it without losing the deposit and being responsible for an additional few thousand - even if we were to change it by a week - i just do not want my wedding day to the be anniversary of her death too.... its selfish i know - but we already have our "official" dating anniversary - which is the same day that his mom died - not the anniversary of - but the same exact day - it is looking like it is in the cards again