Wow, I just wanted to post on here how appreciate I am that y'all are so laid back and helpful! I think there is something seriously different about Hawaii brides.
I just accidentally clicked over to the other boards and read a post from a guy who is in the military and deployed and trying to help his wife plan her dream wedding since they had to go to the JOP route before he deployed. He asked for advice about a beach wedding. Literally 100 women started jumping down his throat telling him he was stupid, that you can't have a wedding after you are married, that they need to get divorced first, that he made that decision so they have to forefit a real wedding, that his wife couldn't wear a wedding dress, etc.
Crazy!! So thank you all! I love that we all help each other and have yet to witness any negative comments on here!
