So, my sister is my MOH and my best friend is a BM. I asked my sister to be MOH only because I was hers, and if I didn't it would have caused family drama. Now, what I knew was going to happen, is happening. My sister is mia and doesn't care about anything (I called to ask her opinion on something wedding related ONCE. After 10 min she said she had to go cause DH was home). Meanwhile, my best friend is always bringing up the wedding, keeps telling me how excited she is, will sit on the phone with me for hours talking about wedding related minutae (sp?). I knew this was going to happen and I feel like kind of a jerk asking my sister to be MOH. Best friend says she is totally fine with it and completely understand why I had to, but I constantly feel guily that she is really there for me so much and doesn't have the "title."