Hello Knotties. I'm perturbed and here's why, I have 8BMs ranging in size from 5'2" size 0 to size 22 5'8" so finding styles that I liked for their dresses were no easy feat. Combined with my MOH keeps complaining about her money issues and how she can't be at any tentative planned bridal party occasions, which I've planned myself. She is my cousin and she's getting married two months after me and I'm her MOH and getting her to be excited about her own wedding is like pulling teeth. Whenever I ask her about her wedding she just rolls her eyes and declares that she doesn't care her FH is planning everything, ask him. It's really starting to get frustrating since I'm really excited about both our days and I'm getting fed up with having my wedding parade rained on.
I spent over two months scouring for dresses that would be comfortable and look good then after deciding what I wanted I get showered with complaints about how to pay for the dress which were at most $200. I do realize that it is a lot to pay for a dress that might only be worn once but there is also a lay away plan and I told the BMs what I wanted about a year in advance. After receiving nonstop whining and complaining about my MOH's financial problems I decided to just change the dresses.
So now I have 5 different styles picked for them to choose from all for $80. The down side is because they are on sale or being discontinued by David's Bridal they aren't available in-store for them to try on. Now that the price is considerably lower I would think everyone would be happy. No. My MOH is no rolling her eyes because she can't try it on. I just can't win with her!!!
Today we went to pick out her BM dresses and low and behold she picks a $155 dress. REALLY?!?! After I spent forever looking for something to accommodate her she picks something straight off the rack and tells me she was trying to get on that was on sale but "Oh well!!"
I've been telling my BMs to start ordering their dress and I get nothing.
I'm spent. I really want to be accommodating to everyone but this really has me irritated. Help! I have a Bride/MOHZILLLA!!!
Be still and know...