Ok so we are all getting a LOT closer to wedding time. I've started doing some serious planning again and feel like everyone in my family/friends thinks my wedding is getting close enough to start thinking about a bunch of stuff.
I have 3 BMs, but no MOH because I didn't feel like I valued one of my three friends over the others. I've decided to instead divide up the typical MOH duties among my BMS, playing to each of their strengths. I've asked each of them what they would like to do and we've been figuring this out together.
One of my BMs, a friend of mine from uni, is going to be in charge of planning the Bachelorette party. She was very excited about this, but I am getting slightly annoyed because I don't think she is thinking about what I would actually enjoy. Mainly, she keeps mentioning male strippers and pinatas full of sex toys...
I am not a super party person. I do like getting my drink on, but I don't like going clubbing. I'm a big fan of pubs and hanging out with friends at home. Low key, social drinking. I'm also not the type of person who has ever gauked at guys. The best ladies night that I personally have ever enjoyed was one where me and 3 girlfriends made dinner together, drank champagne, stayed up late taking about our memories, and then spent the next day in bed watching disney movies. That's the kind of thing I enjoy doing, good friends, good food, good drinks.
I don't know how to tell her that I would really dislike having a "typical" bachelorette party. I don't want anything with male parts on it, or male strippers. I think that would be incredibly awkward. I am all for lingerie presents but I would like to keep anything we do semi-classy. I will 100% appreciate anything she does either way but how can I say exnay to the naked manay without hurting her feelings? I don't want to come off bossy but at the same time I'd like it to be a night I would enjoy.