April 2012 Weddings

Is it weird that I'm NOT stressed?

I know it sounds strange, but is it weird I'm not really stressed?  I guess I'm in a good place on planning but it makes me wonder if I'm forgetting something.  Also, because we only will have a MOH and BM, a ring bearer and two flower girls, there isn't a lot of drama (Oh, and we're paying for it all ourselves).  I mean I've got plenty of work to do and for the most part it's me that's doing it.  My FI keeps saying "It's the Marriage that's important to me, not one day of our wedding", but really gals, isn't that just like a FI to say?!  If I give him specific instructions or tasks, he's cool and helpful, but for the most part I just leave him out of it and find it less stressful.

Who knows, maybe there's stress to come?  I'm also an obsessive list maker...

Re: Is it weird that I'm NOT stressed?

  • Nah not surprising that you're not stressed since you sound like the type who likes to keep things under control (I can relate!), and your fiance is pretty much on board with what you want to do.  Although I'll admit I've had stress when I felt like there was something I COULDN'T control!  :-)
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  • I'm not really that stressed either.

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  • I think its fine! If you have a lot taken care of, lists, etc, you should be good! You may infact find that things get a little more stressful as the day approaches, but just stay prepared! I get a little freaked when I think about stuff but the checklist on the knot and my other lists help me stay sane. 

    I have a lot completed at this point also and my FI doesn't really do a lot unless I ask, but I like it that way. 
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  • Yeah, I kinda like it that way too. :)
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