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How long is your engagement?

So i'm always curious for how long people are engaged and how they picked their date.  Let me know!

well shoot, i accidentally posted it before i finished the poll....so let me know if its longer than a year an half too...my bad

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  • edited December 2011
    I wanted a fall wedding.  No Mizzou footballl game that weekend.  And we decided.Laughing  It was pretty easy.
  • edited December 2011

    We either wanted a spring or fall wedding to avoid the major heat or cold.  2 of my bridesmaids are teachers and 1 is still in school, as well as my future MIL being a teacher.  We waited until the school year would be over for all of them so as to not add any stress or scheduling conflicts.  My future MIL just has two sons-the eldest had a shotgun wedding so she didn't get to participate much.  My Fi and I both wanted her to be able to have a traditional experience of her son getting married so we set a date where her calendar would be free as a bird!

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  • edited December 2011
    We are getting married March 26, 2011.  We will be engaged for almost 2 years! We got engaged on April 12. 2009.  We originally were planning an October 2, 2010 wedding because we thought that time of year would be great for a wedding (not too hot, not too cold, pretty, etc) and we didn't want to plan a wedding in a few months for 2009... THEN we got pregnant! Oops! The baby is due July 27th and we just decided instead of stressing about a wedding and baby that we would push the wedding back a little bit.  We decided on March since it is starting to get warm again (hopefully anyway!) and by that time the baby will be  9 months and we would feel more comfortable leaving her with the grandparents for our honeymoon! :)
  • edited December 2011

    Well FI let me pick a date for next year!!  So I wanted spring summer and started going thru the saturday's in 2011!  Came across August 13 which just happens to be my late great grandmothers birthday!!  I asked FI if that date was ok he said yes and when I told my mom she loved it and she cried!!

  • edited December 2011
    2 years exactly :) We got engaged May 14 2009 and are getting married May 14 2011!
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_missouri-kansas-city_long-engagement?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:82Discussion:6b5bbf3c-85e9-4e2e-9bed-6964e5b23980Post:a237931b-0097-488b-86ea-8688833794dd">Re: How long is your engagement?</a>:
    [QUOTE]We are getting married March 26, 2011.  We will be engaged for almost 2 years! We got engaged on April 12. 2009.  We originally were planning an October 2, 2010 wedding because we thought that time of year would be great for a wedding (not too hot, not too cold, pretty, etc) and we didn't want to plan a wedding in a few months for 2009... THEN we got pregnant! Oops! The baby is due July 27th and we just decided instead of stressing about a wedding and baby that we would push the wedding back a little bit.  We decided on March since it is starting to get warm again (hopefully anyway!) and by that time the baby will be  9 months and we would feel more comfortable leaving her with the grandparents for our honeymoon! :)
    Posted by Janelle21[/QUOTE]

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    </div><div>is it your first kid?  what is it?  Any advice for us who are thinking about it in a few years?  I've  had BOTB (Baby on the brain) recently.  Congrats!</div>
  • edited December 2011
    We wanted a fall wedding because we figured it wouldn't be so hot.  We picked Oct. 2 because KU is not playing at home that Saturday (we couldn't set a date until the 2010 football schedule was released).
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  • edited December 2011
    ha, seems a lot of us had to plan our weddings around football schedule!

    I currently go to the university of Michigan, and we had to make sure that Ohio State/Michigan game was that day.  Though our wedding is on a sunday.  On saturday there is a home game in Michigan and i have friends going to the game and then driving to kansas city...football :-p
  • edited December 2011
    We got engaged November 2009 (complete surprise!) and our wedding date is June 11, 2011. I just really liked the date and I hope the weather will be warm, but not too warm for our outside ceremony.
  • edited December 2011

    Engaged on August 8, getting married on July 10...so 11 months!  I'm a teacher, so I definitely wanted a summer wedding!

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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_missouri-kansas-city_long-engagement?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:82Discussion:6b5bbf3c-85e9-4e2e-9bed-6964e5b23980Post:6a44cc77-bd95-48a8-bab2-0258573ac1e4">Re: How long is your engagement?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: How long is your engagement? : is it your first kid?  what is it?  Any advice for us who are thinking about it in a few years?  I've  had BOTB (Baby on the brain) recently.  Congrats!
    Posted by dazed2confused[/QUOTE]

    This is my 2nd.  My first is 4 and both are girls! :) Being a mom really just comes naturally to me and I'm sure it does to most.  It's just instinct (and listening to your pediatrician <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-wink.gif" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" />) BUT, if you are planning yours...do not plan it for the summer months!! My first was born in Janurary, but this one is in July and it's too hot for this pregnant belly!! LOL!
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    edited December 2011
    Engaged for just a little over a year. We got engaged on August 1, 2009 and are getting married this August 28th. I wanted a summer wedding before K-State football season started so that's how we got that date!
  • edited December 2011
    Engaged April 4, 2010 (Easter!), getting married August 21, 2010 so about 5 months! Dated for 7 years and decided there was no reason to wait any longer. Plus Fiance' left for school in Holland a month after we got engaged so we didn't want to be apart any longer than necessary. We will be moving to Holland 2 days after the wedding and living there for 4 years!!! eeek!
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_missouri-kansas-city_long-engagement?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:82Discussion:6b5bbf3c-85e9-4e2e-9bed-6964e5b23980Post:ad6a91db-a9d3-4ae6-919b-3f6e23871f51">Re: How long is your engagement?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Engaged April 4, 2010 (Easter!), getting married August 21, 2010 so about 5 months! Dated for 7 years and decided there was no reason to wait any longer. Plus Fiance' left for school in Holland a month after we got engaged so we didn't want to be apart any longer than necessary. We will be moving to Holland 2 days after the wedding and living there for 4 years!!! eeek!
    Posted by smorefield[/QUOTE]


    We got engaged on Easter too! But, in 2009 :) I was helping my daughter hunt for eggs and he showed her where one more was and she went and grabbed it and FI said "That ones for mommy" I open it up and theres my ring! Too cute :)

    Good luck with your wedding and then moving to Holland!! That is so exciting!!
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