I've never posted on here just to vent before, but I don't have anyone else that might understand this and I NEED to get it off my chest...My FI is being so annoying I can barely take it! I am 3 months away from the wedding, and trying my best to make it as beautiful and creative as I can (we are doing an art theme). every little idea that I come up with, that I think is great and am SO excited about, he poo-poos on immediately and makes me feel stupid. I don't know if anyone out there is an artist or in a creative field, but it is a really crushing feeling when someone puts down your creative thoughts. It makes me feel so proud when I come up with these ideas, and then he takes all the wind out of my sails and leaves my spirit feeling so defeated.
I dont mean to make him sound like a bad guy, but he just doesnt get how much this means to me. I've already had a talk with him about how important it is to me for our wedding to be unique and original, and that I wish he would support me. He just keeps saying that my ideas are "weird" or "no one does that" - That is exactly what I'm going for! I thought the men were just supposed to sit back and let us do most of the planning. Have any of you run into this and what else should I do?