So about a week ago I basically organized all of our guest list into a seating chart, just to have it slightly grouped how I might want it and hopefully it'll be easier when the time comes to just remove everyone who isn't coming and condense some tables. My mom was asking about the wedding plans and I mentioned that so she asked who I was putting at her table. Of course she was complaining about it and telling me to move 2 people from the table. Now, I put thought into the arrangement and I considered who would get along well and who I thought people would like to be with so it upset me that she was so unhappy with it. I told her she could pick one person she wanted me to move the most and I would, but that ultimately it was going to be my seating chart and she wasn't necessarily going to be able to pick her table.
Then yesterday my mom tells me that one of my aunts told her she hoped I wasn't planning on sitting her with certain family members she doesn't get along with which I wasn't. My mom told me that she told my aunt not to worry about it because I was going to put her with my mom and my uncle, which is not true at all. When I told my mom that wasn't true, she got all mad at me and said I told her I was getting rid of the people she didn't want and putting those people in but that's definitely not what happened at all. Then when I got mad and told her I thought it was rude that everyone is trying to control what's going on at my wedding, that I'm paying for, and that people should just sit where their seated and not stress me out about it, she told me I was a bridezilla. Am I really that wrong for thinking my aunt was rude for saying any of that? Feel free to talk me down if I'm getting crazy already lol.
Ugh, wedding drama [