Hello everyone,
Well I Hope what im about to share with you will help and encourage other women who might be going through the same thing.
See I got married 5 years ago, it was a civil wedding, I was 6 mo. pregnant and we just had a dinner with parents and grandparents. We are both catholics and were raised in Mexico, so we always talked about having our catholic wedding there. For many reasons, we couldnt find the right timing for this, and now we are scared of having a wedding over there because of the violence. Anyway, we both always dreamed of having a nice wedding. On december my husband asked me to marry him in the catholic church, he bought me a beautiful engagement ring, and it meant a lot, because the 1st time he didnt proposed we had both discussed getting married and went to buy my ring...so it always felt it wasnt a proposal. So we started the planning of our catholic wedding. I googled my situation to see what was I supposed to do, and I found so many hurtful comments, saying that women in my situation shouldnt have a big celebration, and shouldnt wear a bridal dress, that is wrong to even call it a wedding because is not a wedding, that it needs to be called either a convalidation ceremony or renewal of vows! WELL, that didnt let me down though, because all my guests and family are as excited as we are, and we are paying for the wedding we want, regardless of what other ppl think, my only concern was the Church. So I contacted my parish, and last week we went to a preparation class... i was surprised to see we werent the only couple, there was this other couple that has been married for 21years and are now having their catholic wedding. So after that they explained to us that we can either have a convalidation ceremony, something intimate, or have a wedding... so of course we chose the wedding... We booked the church, we are now in the process of chosing the readings and the music... it is a wedding, because we have never been married in the catholic church, i remember reading somewhere that a priest wouldnt allow for the invitations to say the word wedding, and that's such a lie! The book that I got from the church has everything written down so i can do my programs... I'm so excited and super happy! Getting the proper blessing from our priest in the catholic church is such a wonderful thing, that it deserves to be celebrated and that's what we are doing...
We all deserve the wedding of our dreams, so dont let anyone discourage you!
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