August 2012 Weddings

Addressing invitaitons

Did anyone opt for the informal, i.e. Brian and Maggie Smith, over the formal, i.e. Mr. and Mrs. Brian Smith, when they addressed their invitations?

I am going to be working on my envelopes tonight and I am leaning toward the informal but am curious to know what you all did.
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Re: Addressing invitaitons

  • I did the formal
    but the invite lady messaged up on few that were couples unmarries and so some came out like
     "Ms. Maggie Smith
      John Butler
      1234 Main Rd. "

    which is prob wrong but oh well it was only 3 or 4
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  • edited June 2012
    I did a little more formal...

    Mrs. Jane and Mr. John Smith
    James, Jennifer and Julian
    123 Street Rd.

    I didn't bother with inner envelopes so I listed kids' names (oldest to youngest) on the outside under the parents' names (ladies first).

    ETA:

    Unmarried people living together I did like this:

    Ms. Jane Doe
    Mr. John Smith
    James, Jennifer and Julian
    123 Street Rd.
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  • kap617kap617 member
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    I did mine like spazticrexe.
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  • Our wedding is casual, and our invitations were addressed to "John and Jane Smith" No mr. or mrs. I know its not proper, but I don't care. That's me!
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    edited June 2012
    For older married couples that would be familiar with the most traditional of wording, we did:
    Mr. and Mrs. John Smith

    For younger married couples in our circle of friends that might be a bit put off if we left off the woman's name, we did:
    Mrs. Jane and Mr. John Smith

    For unmarried people living together, we did:
    Mr. John Smith
    Ms. Jane Doe
  • AjoydAjoyd member
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    Thanks! And also I realized I spelled invitations wrong in the headline...oops :)

    I think I will go with the Mrs. Jane and Mr. John Smith style. I just don't care for leaving off the female spouse's name, even if that is more traditional.
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  • oh my goodness...I didn't even think of this while addressing invitations.  The all went out to Jane and John Doe.  Whoops!
  • I wanted the female name in their but FI printed the envelopes and got the more traditional way.
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  • For married couples:
    Mr. and Mrs. John Doe

    For married couples with kids:
    Mr. and Mrs. John Doe
    Susie, Sally, and Jamie

    For unmarried couples:
    Mr. John Doe and Miss Susie Q 
    or
    Mr. John Doe and Ms. Susie Q

    For unmarried couples with kids:
    Mr. John Doe and Ms. Susie Q
    Sally, Sven, and Harry

    or
    Mr. John Doe and Miss Susie Q
    Sally, Sven, and Harry

    (depends on which parent the kids belong to)

    That's how I wrote ours :)
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