Ok ladies I am having like a major wedding regret fest today.
Where I work, I have a close team that sits with me on my floor. Then I have another team that I work with on the accounts I work on, and there is another team I am close with.
When we did the wedding invites I only invited the team that sits on my floor, which includes my boss, a couple of friends who also see me outside work, and two secretaries who have helped me manage my life this year. I didn't invite the team from the accounts, for three reasons:
1. At the time of the invites I was over-capacity on my room and I was risking inviting any of the 8 from work.
2. I didn't work with the accounts group as much, and I wasn't as close to them as I am now.
3. If I invited this particular group, I felt like it opened up a whole bunch of other people, because I can't pick one account team and not the others.
So basically my logic was sound and still holds. The problem is that I feel so guilty because there is one account guy who I am really close to now, and who has been really supportive of the wedding, who I didn't invite. It was all I could do today to withhold going to him and being like "We have room now!" Ugh.
I just feel really guilty, because I know he would have gone and would like to have been invited, but I just couldn't justify 4 more people at the time the invites went out. (Because if I invited him I'd have to invite another guy on our team - so 2 couples.)
I'm waayyyyyy overthinking this and just need to be reminded that you can't invite everyone to these events. And that all of this over-thinking is just because it's a week before the wedding, I have a project due at work, a house to clean, Mother Nature vistiing, and laundry to do.
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