I'm really upset right now...and I'm probably overreacting, but I'm pretty ticked off at myself for giving in to some people on the guest list....
There are about 10 people that I really really really wanted to be there...and I couldn't invite them because we had to cut the guest list...but yet, I allowed my dad's F*ing bar friends to be invited to the wedding only because he gave us some money for the wedding...least I could do??? (I guess)...but I'm seriously regretting not inviting them...and it's kinda too late now because we really are at our max...
and I don't want to be like hey, I need your address, when it's 1.5 months before the wedding & just now sending invites out to them...=(
I'm just totally bummed about it because these 10 people mean more to FI & I than my dad's F*ing gosh darn bar friends....bahhhhh!!! =( why!?!?! ugh.....I need to grow a backbone sometimes...I should have told my dad to shove it...
Re: I know it isn't Wednesday...but...
Not in the exact same position but I wanted a small wedding (150ish guest list) and I am at 262 because of FI stepmom. She is paying for her half of the guest list which is about 100 people! Its a little insane and so many of them I dont even know or have only met once or twice its just a little annoying! I am with you and just wish I had a little more of a back bone
We are only inviting very few of our friends because FI comes from a HUGE family. I am still bummed about not being able to invite more friends. We are hoping that 35 will say no though, so we are already way above our max.