If you're talking about Jersey shore, post this on a local NJ board. This board is international, and people in Omaha won't know specifics like this one.
But pp is correct: unless you're thinking of hosting this for friends or family, you shouldn't be planning your own engagement party. It's an etiquette faux pas.
"Trix, it's what they/our parents wanted. Why so judgemental? And why is your wedding date over a year and a half ago? And why do you not have a groom's name? And why have you posted over 12,000 posts? And why do you always say mean things to brides?" palegirl146
Re: the offshore for an engagement party?
But pp is correct: unless you're thinking of hosting this for friends or family, you shouldn't be planning your own engagement party. It's an etiquette faux pas.