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Hey Ladies!

Hey y'all!

I've been lurking here off and on for a few years now. I stumbled across this when I was helping my best friend plan her wedding then again when I was helping my sister plan her wedding. I have to admit in the past lurking has kept me sane, especially right around the 5 year mark when everyone and their mother was asking when we were getting engaged, so I figured it's time that I jump in and possibly help others stay sane the way y'all helped me! Also, it'll help keep my mind off school when it gets way to stressful!

A bit about me and the boyfriend... we're both 26 and we've been together for a little bit over 6 1/2 years. I'm currently a grad student and he's doing the 9 to 5 corporate job thing while deciding what he wants to study when he goes back for his masters.

We've been living together for about 4 years now and we're considering expanding our little family to include a cute fur-baby... either a German shorthaired pointer or a Doberman... we're not sure what breed would be best for us yet... we're still in the research phase!

 I'm really excited to become an active part of the board!
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Re: Hey Ladies!

  • edited December 2011
    Welcome! How do you feel about mac n' cheese ?

    And are you planning to shop or adopt?
  • PolkaDotBellaPolkaDotBella member
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    edited December 2011
    I love mac n' cheese! I eat Kraft mac n' cheese with ketchup... yum! I also love my grandma's home made mac n' cheese!

    We're thinking of adopting from a rescue... it's hard to think of buying one when there are so many who are abandoned and given up just waiting to be adopted.
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hey-ladies-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:7ea87d91-39c7-483a-b94c-d4bd065e0605Post:c981190d-0fa2-4bca-9f1b-94e79bcd4a96">Re: Hey Ladies!</a>:
    [QUOTE]I love mac n' cheese! I eat Kraft mac n' cheese with ketchup... yum! I also love my grandma's home made mac n' cheese! We're thinking of adopting from a rescue... <strong>it's hard to think of buying one when there are so many who are abandoned and given up just waiting to be adopted.</strong>
    Posted by PolkaDotBella[/QUOTE]

    Well you have my vote : )
  • PolkaDotBellaPolkaDotBella member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks Senorita! Oh and I love your picture... super cute and now I want a cupcake...
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  • edited December 2011
    Good answer, PolkaDot. I'm partial to that pattern myself.
  • edited December 2011
    Welcome!!!
    Totally agree with how lurking keeps you sane at times.
    What is your favorite color combination with polka dots? I am a big fan of the combo in your pic.
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  • PolkaDotBellaPolkaDotBella member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks GreenPepper!
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  • PolkaDotBellaPolkaDotBella member
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    edited December 2011
    JMM- I think the ones in my pic are my favorite along with black, yellow and white; purple, silvery-grey and black and orange and grey.... It's hard to pick just one combination!
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hey-ladies-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:7ea87d91-39c7-483a-b94c-d4bd065e0605Post:497a1af4-b3a6-4c17-bcfb-2cfee3b85dad">Re: Hey Ladies!</a>:
    [QUOTE]JMM- I think the ones in my pic are my favorite along with black, yellow and white; purple, silvery-grey and black and orange and grey.... I<strong>t's hard to pick just one combination!</strong>
    Posted by PolkaDotBella[/QUOTE]


    Agreed.
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  • Elle1036Elle1036 member
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    edited December 2011
    Hi PDB!

    Do you like Harry Potter?
  • MLekathLEENMLekathLEEN member
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    edited December 2011
    Welcome!! We think our lab is mixed with GSP. We read up on them and they are good dogs but can be very hyper at times.
  • PaigeMcCPaigeMcC member
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    edited December 2011
    Hi.  Welcome to the nut  house.

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  • PolkaDotBellaPolkaDotBella member
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    edited December 2011
    Elle- I actually just finished reading them all over Christmas break and I loved them!! I'm now super excited to watch the movies...

    MLekathLEEN- Yeah GSP are super hyper but we have a yard and are pretty active so it would get lots of excercise and so would we! It would totally be a win-win situation!

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  • Elle1036Elle1036 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hey-ladies-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:7ea87d91-39c7-483a-b94c-d4bd065e0605Post:10db1a3c-6b49-4a47-9952-44a55b5704c4">Re: Hey Ladies!</a>:
    [QUOTE]<strong>Elle- I actually just finished reading them all over Christmas break and I loved them!! I'm now super excited to watch the movies...</strong> MLekathLEEN- Yeah GSP are super hyper but we have a yard and are pretty active so it would get lots of excercise and so would we! It would totally be a win-win situation!
    Posted by PolkaDotBella[/QUOTE]

    Good girl!  If you ever feel like talking about Harry Potter, I don't get sick of it.
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  • PolkaDotBellaPolkaDotBella member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks Elle! I may take you up on that!

    Thanks for the welcome everyone!!
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    edited December 2011
    Hi welcome. Feel free to stick around after your intro post.
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  • PolkaDotBellaPolkaDotBella member
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    edited December 2011
    Audgie- Thanks!! Oh I plan on it!
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  • garcias1garcias1 member
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    edited December 2011
    Hi!  I know what you mean with the constant questions from people: where's the ring? when are you getting engaged?  FI and I were together 6 1/2 years before he proposed.  Granted, we bought a house together, so we agreed that engagement and marriage would wait until we were settled in the house and comfortably paying the mortgage.

    PS.  Once you do get engaged and married, be prepared for new questions:  when are you having kids?  how many kids do you want?  People will always ask these kinds of questions, so you might as well get used to it (and potentially have a really cute/funny/shocking answer for them - just to keep them on their toes of course).
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  • edited December 2011
    Hi - welcome aboard!  Good for you for getting a rescue animal...adopting my baby, Maxy, 9 years ago was the best decision I could make.
  • PolkaDotBellaPolkaDotBella member
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    edited December 2011
    Garcias- Oh I know more questions will follow... after the engagement it'll be about the wedding... then after the wedding it'll be about kids...  I'm workin on collecting fun answers!

    Angie- thanks! What kind of animal did you rescue?
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  • Blue & WhiteBlue & White member
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    edited December 2011
    Welcome! :)

    BF and I have recently come to answering with denial/blank stares.  It gets some great responses (but probably doesn't work on sweet grandmothers.)

    For instance, while resigning our lease (we did it separately due to work schedules,) our office manager asked "so when's the big day?" (to each of us separately.)

    My response: "Never?"
    BF's response: "What big day?"

    (sarcasm win)

    Our office manager obviously thinks we're psychotic.  We're not. 
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  • PolkaDotBellaPolkaDotBella member
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    edited December 2011
    Blue & White- oh yeah... we've perfected that one! Or the one my bf loves is "when she gets around to asking me". That really makes people look at us funny. One of my personal favorites is "Well, I've heard marriage changes a relationship and we're happy the way we are, so why would we want to ruin it?"

    Those are mainly reserved for strangers/acquaintances... I don't have many quick witty ones for the family. Well I do, but they're not nice so I don't bust 'em out. I do think them though and laugh to myself...
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