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No more Northern Indiana board!  Or Southern, for that matter.  So, I guess we will all be posting here!  I'm good with that! 

I've been out of my wedding planning for the last week.  I have had two uncles pass away in the last six days.  I"m exhausted.  I haven't focused on anything for the wedding, so I can help my family thru this time.  This is the sixth person we know of in the last three weeks to pass away. 

I'm trying to stay positive, but it's so hard.  Both uncles were on my mom's side.  So, a lot of my cousin's and I are being each other's support group. 

It really sucked when I went in to our guest list and saw both of their names, and had to put them down as 'no's.  Then, I added both of them to our 'memorial' section of our program.  

We  have 23 days until our wedding.  I've been letting my friends know that I will need them closer to the wedding date to help get somethings done, because I'm just exhausted, emotionally and physically, right now. 

Sorry about the vent, but there's just so much on my mind right now...
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  • edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry for your losses! It's good to keep your friends nearby for extra support as your day gets closer.

    On the bright side, it will be nice to have a happy, joyful family get together after all the stress the past week.
  • edited December 2011
    I am so sorry for your loss.  That can't be easy.  But at least you're not too far away from your wedding and all your friends and family will be there to support you and you get to marry a wonderful man! 

    Sad about the northern and southern boards, but they weren't very active, so it's a good thing they just piled them all here.
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  • edited December 2011
    Sorry for your loss....on a positive note, glad you are here. Maybe you can get refueled soon.
  • edited December 2011
    Hang in there!!!!! You are so close... rely on your friends is right. I'm sorry to hear about your loss and hope your family members are able to make it for your wedding to celebrate you!!!
  • gobluebhgobluebh member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks for all of the encouragement...  I really need it right now!

    A lot of my friends have been calling me, or messaging me on FB to let me know they're here to help.  I"m totally going to take them up on it!  One of my friends came over last night and we started plowing thru things. 

    Now we have around 10 family members who are up in the air about whether or not they can make it.  I'm goign to leave a table up for the 'just in case' people who might show up.  But, we're trying to decide how to figure out a  head count for food...  so that stinks.  We'll figure something out, plus I will call my caterer and get their advice. 
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