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Bad Day to be a bridesmiad......

soontobehanbysoontobehanby member
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My MOH is getting married a month after I am. I was a bridesmaid. Today, she kicked me out and backed out of mine because I couldn't pay her TODAY for her bridesmaid dress that was over my budget that I found out about saturday. Boo.
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  • mlg78mlg78 member
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    Wow...just wow.  Give her a week or so and see if she simmers down...but people suck...after reading a few posts tonight people just plain suck sometimes.
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  • soontobehanbysoontobehanby member
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    I actually didn't want to say yes to being a bm in the first place because it was so close to my wedding day and FI and I are moving to a different state the week before and it was going to be difficult, but she asked me in front of other people, and I felt pressured so I said yes.  So, today when the whole conversation of money for the dress came up, she got upset with me for not being honest with her in the first place, which I totally get.  I was going to do my best to pay for the dress and be there for her.  It was just getting to be too much.  She called me a bad friend and was upset because I didn't seem excited about her wedding.  Honestly, I am getting married a month before and I am supposed to be super duper ecstatic about her wedding?  I'm a little preoccupied with mine, thank you! Oh, and she was mad I was gonna miss the bach party, which would be when I was moving to a different state. Uh, sorry? Still sucks. Didn't want to lose a friend over this.
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  • libby2483libby2483 member
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    Wow, sorry that happened.  Some people are just unreasonable.
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  • daveANDkristendaveANDkristen member
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    Sounds like your friend sucks. I'm sorry she us treating you like this. She should have asked you for your budget before deciding on a dress, but even if she hadn't you should certainly have had more than two days notice before payment was due! Yikes...
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  • melb2013melb2013 member
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    Holy Moly... who does that? yikes!

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  • Weezy56Weezy56 member
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    You are better off, she's sounds crazy
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
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    Sorry this happened to you!  Hopefully your friend will calm down, understand, and see the light.  If not, it really seems like you dodged a bullet by not having to be a part of her BP.
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  • AddieCakeAddieCake member
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    My cousin kicked me out a few years ago when I couldn't go to an appointment with her to look at dresses. She called me the day before, so it wasn't like we had plans and I cancelled. She told me I was putting everyone before family. The reason I couldn't go?  My MOTHER was in from out of state for just one day. We grew up in different places. Maybe in her school district the family tree got taught differently. Oy. 

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  • soontobehanbysoontobehanby member
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    She told me today that I have been a big jerk to her the whole time she has been engaged.  I really was at a loss! I asked her what I did that was so mean. It was something I had said awhile back about her indecisiveness.  She couldn't decide between about 5 bm dresses.  All I did was say, "Hey, maybe you can just let us pick out our own dress out of the 5 if you can't decide."  I still can't figure out how it was mean.. Maybe I said it with a tone?  I just don't know.  Apparently it caused tension.
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  • mcda04mcda04 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_bad-day?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:65eb2edf-88a7-45ad-ab7f-8cd9b809113fPost:a1edb034-c44a-4b84-a119-50638af1aa3a">Re: Bad Day to be a bridesmiad......</a>:
    [QUOTE]She told me today that I have been a big jerk to her the whole time she has been engaged.  I really was at a loss! I asked her what I did that was so mean. It was something I had said awhile back about her indecisiveness.  She couldn't decide between about 5 bm dresses.  All I did was say, "Hey, maybe you can just let us pick out our own dress out of the 5 if you can't decide."  I still can't figure out how it was mean.. Maybe I said it with a tone?  I just don't know.  Apparently it caused tension.
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    And she didn't address the issue with you then? Yeah she sounds aweful. Enjoy your wedding planning. Sounds like she's alleviated some of your stress; now you don't have to worry about attending bridal showers/ parties.
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