My FMIL wants to have a shower for me in her state so she can have her friends and relatives there (in MN). FI's aunt is hosing at FMIL's house. I am in Colorado and it will just be me and my FI flying out there. FMIL says she will drive out any gifts I get when she comes to the wedding. The shower is in 3 weeks, on July 5, and our wedding is in September, in 3 months. Does it make sense that I will see gifts 3 months ahead of time but won't actually have them in my possession until the wedding? I don't know how this usually works and I just wanted to know what other people's experiences are.
I'm hoping that guests will realize we are flying in and won't be able to take much back with us, so they will get us something small or have it shipped to us. Is this an unrealistic hope?
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