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I don't know what people on S&R are thinking.

ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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You ladies would dump a guy who bragged to you about how great sex with his ex was, right?  And you'd also dump a guy who constantly talked about how insatiable his ex was, rather than plan a wedding with him, right?
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Re: I don't know what people on S&R are thinking.

  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    Uhm...Yeah.  Why, are people suggesting they 'work things out' or something?
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  • baconsmombaconsmom member
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    edited December 2011
    Probably.

    To play devil's advocate (my favorite game!): Is this the only way he knows to initiate a conversation about his sexual needs with his current girlfriend? If she's not open to listening to him without the talk of the ex, and he thinks he has to shock her to make his desires known, I'd suggest some counseling. 

    But that assumes he's not a douche, and I don't know that I can make that assumption, frankly. 
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  • dharmabunnydharmabunny member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_dont-people-sr-thinking?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:08e5275c-244c-4840-bfa3-a0fa32e7f533Post:f2c31446-be51-4e8c-9735-ffe99c490121">Re: I don't know what people on S&R are thinking.</a>:
    [QUOTE]Uhm...Yeah.  Why, are people suggesting they 'work things out' or something?
    Posted by mrs.conn23[/QUOTE]

    Or are they suggesting said woman in questions gets some pornos and ideas to improve her A game?
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  • ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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    edited December 2011
    Does it change your answer if the women posting are the ones sexually unsatisfied, and they are the ones initiating conversations (about their relationship, not about how sex was with previous partners)?
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  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    WTF is there to work out?  He's a jerk.  Or you suck in bed...either way the communication is for crap.
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  • baconsmombaconsmom member
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    edited December 2011
    Nymphomaniac. Really? People still use this word? 

    I dunno; after reading the thread, I think they might me MFEO. She "confronted" the "nympho" ex about this? Mmmmmkay. 


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  • ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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    edited December 2011
    Right?  That was CRAZY.  Can you even IMAGINE if some random new woman some old boyfriend was with started asking you about your sex life?   I don't think my eyebrows would ever be coming back.
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  • baconsmombaconsmom member
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    edited December 2011
    I'll be honest, Kuus: I assume the women posting on S&R are all ridiculously repressed and sex-negative (because that's what I see in every freaking thread), and if they're initiating a conversation, I have a feeling it's something like, "You don't want sex anymore. You think I'm unattractive. I will now cry about this and yell at you and not actually find out what might be wrong. I mean, you're a man, and obviously you want sex all the time, so if you don't want it, you don't want me." 


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  • ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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    edited December 2011
    I imagine it that way, too.  But even THEN, it's not appropriate to say what these men are saying. 
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  • baconsmombaconsmom member
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    edited December 2011
    Well, no, but isn't it better for the rest of us if the inappropriate jerkwads keep to themselves? 
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  • ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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    edited December 2011
    true!
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  • NOLABridesmaidNOLABridesmaid member
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    edited December 2011
    Who would walk up the ex and say, "Yeah, I heard that one move you do with your leg gets an A+." Hee

    Does she want lessons or something?
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