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I need advice!

kstine84kstine84
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I sent out my Save the Dates last month and I was going to do the whole ceremony/reception thing. I sent them out to over 120 people I planned on inviting. But now I don't want to have a large ceremony or reception and just use the wedding money to buy a house. How do I go about "uninviting" some of the people I sent STD's to? I want less than 50 people at my reception (to save costs).
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Re: I need advice!

  • loveshine1loveshine1 member
    Ninth Anniversary 5000 Comments 25 Love Its
    edited December 2011
    You don't. You already sent out STDs, and that is that.

    You can cut back in other areas, but you cannot uninvite people.
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  • baconsmombaconsmom member
    Knottie Warrior 5000 Comments 500 Love Its First Answer
    edited December 2011
    Ditto Loveshine. An STD=an invitation. 

    Next time, make sure you know WTF you want before you commit. 
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  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
    Knottie Warrior 10000 Comments 500 Love Its First Answer
    edited December 2011
    This post is one of many reasons why STD's are usually a bad idea.  You're SOL unless your cancel the wedding.
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  • LnR70707LnR70707 member
    Tenth Anniversary 2500 Comments 5 Love Its
    edited December 2011
    STDs should only be sent out to people that you are %100 sure you what to be there no matter what.  Why would send out 120 of them?  That is just ridiculous.

    You are stuck.
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  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
    10000 Comments Sixth Anniversary 25 Love Its
    edited December 2011
    Short of calling each person individually and telling them the wedding is cancelled and explaining your backasswards self, nothing.

    Good Luck and let us know how it goes.
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  • zsazsa-stlzsazsa-stl member
    Eighth Anniversary 5000 Comments 100 Love Its First Answer
    edited December 2011

    The date has been saved for these people, so you can't uninvite them.  But what you can do is cut costs so that it doesn't cost as much per guest.


    Or...you can get married somewhere highly undesirable to keep the Yes RSVPs to a minimum.  I would suggest the city dump at 3am.

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  • loop0406loop0406 member
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    edited December 2011
    I think you're stuck.
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