I am getting married on Saturday; everything has been arranged. However, my priest has been very difficult and lately his emails have been very short and curt. He has said no to every little thing that I have asked for, and considering we are not having a full mass I was suprised at his inflexibilty. And regardless, even with all of the answers being no, his emails did not need to be mean.
In fact - in the latest one, I asked him if we could meet in person (I do not live in the city I am getting married in, but am now in town for the wedding and think this would be better in person). and he said "I will see you at the rehearsal on Friday if you wish to continue". If you wish to continue... like I am going to call the whole thing off because I didn't get my way or something. Or because we aren't getting along. How judgemental and presumptious.
My question is this - is there a way to get someone else to preside over my mass at the last minute? How do I go about asking for this? I literally have 3 days to go - but I do not like the thought of always resenting the person that married us!