C&P. I had to add paragraphs.
DH and I had another argument about this last night... He still thinks I'm overreacting and I think he's lucky I didn't freak out on him. Am I crazy or is this a really big deal?
When I was in labor all family stayed away except FIL who we are in no way close to. He just decided to show up for some reason. I wasn't real thrilled about that. (He's also only visited to see LO 2 times since she was born and lives an hour away.)
Right after I give birth and everything is cleaned up FIL and wife come into the room to see LO. I was still not thrilled that they were even there. I felt this was a special time for my new family and really wanted people to wait until the next day to visit. Well FIL kept insisting to take DH out to dinner RIGHT after I gave birth! DH said he shouldn't a couple of times and then caved and went out to eat!
I had a somewhat traumatic delivery, they took baby to make sure everything was fine with her, and DH goes out to eat?! I sat in my delivery room alone for the next hour crying because I had all these new, strange emotions and was all alone. I think I'll always hold a grudge against DH and more so FIL (he's very selfish and things have to go his way) for going out to eat right after I gave birth. I just don't get it. Eat a fucking sandwich and hang with your wife who just had your baby!!!
So....am I justified or am I making this a bigger deal than it is? Thanks ladies. I don't hold many grudges but I still find this unbelievable.