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Please tell me I'm not the only one!

I woke up in the middle of the night last night crying with a horrible pain in my face.  I guess i was clenching my teeth in my sleep so hard that it caused this.  And do you know what i was dreaming about!?  Ceremony programs! I have 23 days left, and between getting everything for teh wedding done, and catching up on everything at work before vacation, i'm more stresed than i thought!  im actually shaking today. I'm a bit of a perfectionist/planner, so i think mostly my fear is not completing things.  Anybody else going through these type of things?

Re: Please tell me I'm not the only one!

  • Before getting married I tried to do everything myself, impossible!  Ask for help!  Help was offered to me and as hard as it was to let go it was the best thing I could have done!  The day before the wedding I basically let go of everything "as much as I could"  and went to the spa.  I got my nails done, had a massage...ok it wasn't the most relaxing massage I've ever had but it helped.  Force yourselves to relax otherwise you won't enjoy the day!  Best of luck to everyone!  It will be the best day of your lives!
  • I had them a lot in the last month. My advice to you would be to try as hard as popssible to give yourself at least 3-4 days at the end of relaxation and have all of the planning done. We were completely done this past weekend and it's nice to have these few days to relax and not do wedding planning. It is allowing me to enjoy it so much more and be less stressed. GL!
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