Hi ladies! Thank you so much for all the warm welcomes in response to my previous post. This is all very overwhelming and the advice is very much appreciated! I'm going to check out Apple Ridge CC in Mahwah and Ramsey Country Club, but if those aren't what I'm looking for...it's down to two. Stony Hill Inn in Hackensack or Macaluso's in Hawthorne.I'm having about 185 people on a Saturday night (don't know which one though!) in July 2010. I'll be having the ceremony at the reception venue. Any reviews and opinions on these places would be so greatly appreciated! (Even if they're brutal! lol I want to know before I go!)Thank you all for reading this and for any advice!