My first vent- hope its not too long... So FI's best man has been acting super weird the last few weeks. He will not return FI's calls, but still sends him jokey emails, then when FI tries to ask him anything about the wedding he just wont respond. Our RSVP date was last friday and he never sent back his card. It has been like pulling teeth trying to get his dates name! Come to find out he bringing a girl named "stacey" whom he has never even been on a date with before. (Which is fine- but I just think a wedding is not a good first date especially since he will be busy with pictures, etc). I really don't care I just need her last name! I ask him for Stacey last name and get no response. I need to send the names to the printers for the place cards soon. We also sent an invite to his parents (whom we don't know that well but wanted to invite) and he wont tell us if they are coming either! He even acted a little "upset" that I was asking for the dates name. Also, he told FI he was going to put together a bachelor party and he picked the date. It's about two weeks away and none of the other groomsmen have heard anything and FI can't even tell if it is still on. FI has been trying to get a hold of him and say if its money or something he is worried about the guys can just come to our place and chill and have drinks- very low key. He just refuses to call back or email when regards to the wedding. He used to be really into it (as much as a best man can be) and now its just so weird! We have no idea what is going on! There was no fight or anything.