Hi Ladies, I'm new here and in need some advice!

Re: Hi Ladies, I'm new here and in need some advice!

• gavinandmichelle

  

  July 2009 edited December 2011

  I think that if you invite them to the party they should be invited to the wedding.  It would be hard to ask someone to celebrate my last night of freedom but not celebrate my happiness for the rest of my life....but again that is just me.

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• Travis and Brittany!

  

  July 2009 edited December 2011

   Before my FIL went invite crazy, everyone understood that we were only having a family wedding. If they wanted to help celebrate before the wedding great; however, we were only inviting family and close close friends to the wedding.   Another point, where I am from it is okay to have people come to one event and not the other. So, it could depend on where you are from.

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• aborella

  

  July 2009 edited December 2011

  personally, I wouldnt.  A girl we work with got married this summer and only invited some girls from work to her wedding but invited everyone from work to her b-party and bridal shower. she got a few whispers. In this situation all the girls brought gifts to each party, but still werent invited to the wedding. it did seem weird and a bit rude..but every situation is different...

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• okieqt23 member

  

  July 2009 edited December 2011

  Thanks ladies!  My co-workers know that I'm having a small wedding and that we are on a tight budget. I will just be honest with them about the party and extend an invite if they would like to come. 

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