So, I have been watching the weddings online, and I am not liking the officiant or maybe it's the the fact that the ceremonies are ALL the same. Have any of you paid the $500 to customize your ceremony? Or did you request something like a reading, unity candle, etc and they told you it would cost the $500 to customize? I am really considering paying the money, but I am also wondering if the officiant would be able to pull it off. Did any of you or are any of you paying for the rehearsal? My guy is insistant on it, but I would rather spend the money on other things. Did you use your own music from a cd or are you going to? I am highly considering it, just wondering who is going to push all the buttons. What songs did you use? I think I have decided on the song for my entrance, but that's about it. I am not digging the piano music, but every ceremony I have seen online has used a piano.