Ok here goes. Fiance's brother's fiance (so tech. FSIL) was asked to be in the wedding 2 yrs. ago. Since then she has been nothing but a headache, skipped out on 3 dress appts. at the last minute, didn't offer to help w/shower, couldn't tell me whether she wanted her hair done or not, I booked a suite for all the girls the night before.. she didn't wanna stay in the suite but didn't wanna drive to the wedding the next day. Complained that my wedding weekend was going to be stressful for her because her parents are getting an addition to thier house, which she isn't doing the construction personally so I am not really sure how that effects her..lol Anyway about 2 months ago she basically backed out of the wedding. I told her to call the dress shop immediately (dresses were ordered maybe 2 weeks prior) to try and get her deposit back. She waited til yesterday to call and so obviously they said no. She then emails me to ask for her dress deposit... I had to laugh... she told me to replace her, and get the replacement to pay her.