My fiance and I would like to buy a house in the near future. We have put a good amount of items on registries at Target, Bed, Bath, and Beyond, and Macys. I feel like if people know what the money will go to, gifting money doesn't sound so blah.
So. What is the best place to start a fund like this. Isn't there something like downpaymentdreams.com?
Sorry if this question has been asked a million times over.
Re: asking to donate towards downpayment?
This is rude and should not be done.
People know money is a great gift!
[QUOTE]My fiance and I would like to buy a house in the near future. <strong>We have put a good amount of items on registries at Target, Bed, Bath, and Beyond, and Macys</strong>. I feel like if people know what the money will go to, gifting money doesn't sound so blah. So. What is the best place to start a fund like this. Isn't there something like downpaymentdreams.com? Sorry if this question has been asked a million times over.
Posted by dunurwen[/QUOTE]
Okay this confuses me. You registered for many items from THREE stores but really are looking for cash? Looks like your in need of home goods not cash. Your more likely to receive cash if your friends and family know your already established and have a home full of nicer things. My husband and I didn't need much. We had a small registry with about 35 items and only 1 guest purchased items from it. Everybody else gave us cash.
[QUOTE]Wow, wasn't expecting to get ripped to shreads over asking a question that I didn't have any experience in. So my idea is tacky, thank you for letting me know, but wow, way to keep it classy everyone.
Posted by dunurwen[/QUOTE]
Sorry but do you know another way to say something is rude and tacky?
It is considered bad manners, though, to ask for cash. If you want cash gifts, then don't register for any items. People generally know that means that a monetary gift would be preferred. If anyone asks your parents or a wedding party member, it's okay for them to answer that you are hoping to save enough to buy a house soon...or something similar.
Good luck to you!
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