Monday: Week plans!

Re: Monday: Week plans!

• HisBelovedOne

  

  November 2010 edited December 2011

  Well, first I'm killing this headache. Rrrk.
  
  Then, lol... aside from my usual housework and life stuff, I've got Actual Wedding Planning Stuff to do. My list for the week:
  
  ~Remind R that he is not allowed to attend the wedding naked or in casual clothes and therefore needs to find SOMETHING special-occasion-appropriate to wear.
  ~Bug photographer (again) about contract
  ~Look into premarital counseling course (required for license)
  ~Send payment and stones to jeweler for my ring
  ~Start looking for new photographer if this one falls through
  

  

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• raangoli

  

  November 2010 edited December 2011

  Remember those invites I keep putting off sending out? Well the latest project I am putting off is seating. I see a pattern of procrastination here...so the seating is on the list of things to do this week.
  
  Wednesday - we go apply for our marriage license.
  
  Friday - I pick up my dress from it's final fitting. Which just happens to also be our dating anniversary. I like the serendipity in that occasion
  
  And all the days and time in between: try to get my day job done while I finalize plans and timelines and payments. Oh my!
  

  

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• HisBelovedOne

  

  November 2010 edited December 2011

  Ok, new task for the week.
  
  Try really, really hard to forgive FI for giving in ON MY BEHALF  to something his parents pressured him about, KNOWING I would be against it, and then telling me after the fact that he'd promised it.
  
  I'm too pissed at him to even look at him right now.
  

  

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• DFWIndian

  

  November 2010 edited December 2011

  His beloved -- hope you worked thing out with your FI. Man what's with your photographer?? I would be getting really upset. Photography was one of my big things.
  
  raangoli -- yes there is a small pattern. Don't worry though you'll get it done. I decided not to do a seating chart for this reason, but FFIL wants it so now I am torn. He's such a sweet man I could see myself bending over backwards to help him.

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• HisBelovedOne

  

  November 2010 edited December 2011

  The photographer finally got back to me - after I called him. Turns out the man never checks his spam folder and me last two emails had fallen into that folder. Rrrk. But we got it all straightened out and he says we'll be able to arrange a meetup for the contract within the week.
  
  Now, this issue with FI... we talked it out and we're ok, for now. But only because he swore to me (because I was about ready to kill him) that he would talk to his parents and we would come up with a compromise that makes everyone happy. It's something we all feel strongly about but we (true to form) have severely opposing opinions on it. I'm not willing to let them bulldoze me into a cultural tradition that I'm not okay with and they're not happy that I'm not "traditional" enough, so we have to find some middle ground here.
  

  

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