Back story: So I have a cousin who lives in CA, about an hour from me. Before I moved here, I had visited CA and went to dinner with her one night. We were very close as kids and grew apart when her family moved further away in NJ, and over the years lost touch. When we hung out, I was shocked--we had so much in common! When I found out I was moving, I thought maybe we'd reconnect.So the whole time I've been out here, I've tried to make plans with her and she'll be all into it and then when it comes down to it, she'll not answer or back out or whatever. The last time I told her it seems like she didn't want to hang out--she insisted she really did, that she was really busy, etc., etc. She DOES have a pretty demanding job and has always been really, really social with friends all over, so I thought there was some truth to this (though I'm sure, like anyone, she could have made time if she wanted). I wouldn't say I was hurt by it--like I said, it's not like we had been close in many years--but just seemed odd, I guess, to not hang out with your cousin who is your only close by family. I'm not sure this is relevant or not, but I have always gotten the distinct sense she is jealous of me. I hate the way that sounds, but it's just in things she says, and I hate it. She has no reason to be jealous either--she is beautiful, has a great job, lots of friends, etc.Anyway, so last week she reached out to me and said she really wanted to make plans. FI and I are packing and arranging for our move this week, but FI agrees to take out some time to see them since he knows I would like to. So we made plans for Sunday (yesterday) to go to the King Tut exhibit in SF and then out to early dinner--me, FI, her and her girlfriend. She tells me to buy my and FI's tickets for the 3 pm slot--twice. So I do it and confirm with her that I did on Saturday. So Sunday rolls along and she texts me at 11 am to say her girlfriend didn't buy the tickets and you can't buy them online the day of the event, but that they called and may be able to get them at the door. I am annoyed because, although we are interested in seeing it, it's not something I would have spent $70 on if we weren't seeing her, especially as we're in the midst of moving cross-country.So I text her back and say she should make sure to get there early then, so she can get tickets. So at 2:20, she texts me to say that we should go "live it up" at Tut and they will meet us afterward to eat. So I'm upset and FI is pretty pissed--we're forced to go to this exhibit we bought tickets for just to see her and now she's not even going! So I think to myself that if she really tried to get there early to get tix, she should already be there or on her way at the very least (since she lives an hour away). So I text her back and just say we're going to get back to packing in that case and we'll see her some other time (thinking she should be like, no, we already left, etc.). So she texts back at 3--the time of the show--and says "No we'll still come, we're just a little behind!" So obviously did not come early and even try to get the tix. When we got to the exhibit I asked if tix were available to purchase and they were.So I just ignored her texts. I also thought it was pretty sh!tty of her to put the blame on her gf, who I've never met. Like stop making excuses and accept the blame. She kept texting me saying how her gf really wants to meet me before the wedding, we can go out to dinner this week, etc. (P.S. Nice assumption you're getting a +1.) I think she realized she made her gf look bad. This morning she e-mails me on FB to apologize again and suggest we go out to dinner this week. Talk about ballsy--sure, let me take out more time from moving across the FREAKING country for someone who stands me up at the last minute.