My FI's a police officer and when we saw this action wedding cake he wanted it. Well, I told him that wasn't going to happen. Now I'd like to surprise him with an action cake at the RD. I found this topper but I'm Af-Am, and the bride on the cake is not. Do I try to paint her or leave it as is? (FI's white). That's the cake that we saw, although it wouldn't be exactly like that.