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NikRenee22109 · July 2009

So I haven't been around lately, I swear there is one thing after another after another it seems like.First, someone keeps hacking in ALL my accounts. Emails, myspace, facebook, and who knows what else. I have had to change or delete everything. Even when I change my passwords, it is fine for a couple days, but then whoever it is goes onto my accounts deletes things and then changes my password. I have had to call both our banks to make sure nothing has been compromised either, and as soon as anything suspicious happens they will close our account. Only problem, DH is in the Philippines, so if that happens he has NO access to our money. Thankfully he is supposed to be home next week. It is just so frustrating.Second, house hunting sucks. We just want to find a house, and we haven't found anything we love yet. We have decided to put in our 30 notice on base though, and get an apt in Temecula, we both are so over living on base.Third, on Saturday early morning (like 3:00 in the morning) I find out one of my good friends passed away. He was my first friend when I moved to OC. I have had to deal with his death by myself, which has been really hard. I am hoping after the funeral on Saturday I have closure, because as of now, he is all I think about, and I find myself crying at any given moment.So with all that drama I have exciting news...we are going to start trying to have a baby. We are starting as soon as he gets home. I am so excited, because I have had baby fever so bad. So hopefully I join the mommy club next year.So how have all your girls been? I have been lurking trying to keep updated, I am trying to not be on the computer too much until DH gets home though and see hows whoever is getting into all my accounts.Well I hope all you girls are doing good. I always hope the board starts picking up.

sdkissez · July 2009

I'm sorry to hear about all these things happening. Did you have a phone stolen recently? I wonder how people are figuring out your passwords and such. Do you think it could be someone you know? Death is hard for everyone and everyone grieves in their own way. I hope you are able to find closure, but if you don't get it on Saturday, just know that it will come eventually.

Do you have someone that you can talk to? I think it's important to talk about it instead of trying to deal with it by yourself. Sometimes just having someone to listen to you can help in the healing process.Let me know if you need anything.

mc108 · July 2009

Wow Nik, I'm sorry you are having to deal with so much. I know that house hunting can sometimes suck, but the perfect house is out there and you will find it when the time is right- I have faith ;)I cannot figure out how someone could keep getting into your stuff....I'm wondering if they straight out hacked your computer? If they are accessing your whole computer then anything you type in can be retrieved. Are you using wireless Internet? If so double check that it is security enabled...and even if it is call your provider and change the password just in case.I'm really sorry to hear about the death of your friend. I know it must be difficult esp. considering that DH is gone atm. We're here- ditto Rebecca, it's much better to talk about and express your grief than to keep it inside. Congrats on (eventually) joining the mommy club!

NikRenee22109 · July 2009

Thanks you guys. I have a couple people I can talk to, it is just hard. DH was always jealous of my friendship with him, and he is kinda annoyed that I am grieving about it. And I have no clue how and who it is accessing all my stuff. That is why I am trying to stay off the computer, incase someone hacked into my computer. I am going to have DH look at it when he comes home. My phone hasn't been stolen, and I don't go on the internet with it. It is just creeping me out. I mean I deleted my myspace and made a new one because of it, they are mostly targeting my yahoo, gmail and myspace. They aren't careful about it though, because they read things or delete things but I find it in my trash folder, or change my password. Like that isn't obvious.

Kasi80 · July 2009

Oh wow, it is strange that they keep getting into your accounts. Are your password things that non one will ever guess?Sorry to hear about your friend. Death is so hard to deal with and I agree with the others, closure will come. My ex-BIL died at the age of 23 and it was hard at first but eventually thinking of him became easier to deal with. Yay for baby-making!! I'm jealous but happy for you.Keep up the house hunting! It's such a stressful and disappointing experience each time your offer gets rejected or you find out the house already has 300 offers on it. We eventually gave up and settled on the one we ended up with. There were a few houses that we considered "dream" houses but they had offers so I got tired and gave up. The house we're in isn't exactly what we want but it suffices for now. One day we will upgrade to our "forever" house. Keep looking and you will find something!

amberg321 · July 2009

I dont know if you already do this but always shut your computer down when you are not on it. Hackers can remote on to specific computers if they know the name of it (every computer has a "name") and once they are on your computer its really easy for them to do a common key combo search. So dont save any passwords to your computer and shut it down. I work with a bunch of hacker type people and one just told me that is the most common way they get that info.I am sooo sorry to hear about your friend. Please let me now if there is anything you need. Congrats on the baby making! How cute would that be if you, Sandra and Sylvia were all prego at the same time?!

breleficent · July 2009

That is so weird about the computer hacking. It is amazing what people can do. Really, I don't think we have any clue the amout of info a person can get and stuff. One of my friend's brother is a computer genius and has hacked into so many things. The good thing is is that he doesn't ever do anything bad. He just hacks to see if he can gain access. lol. Idiot. I know house hunting sucks. My mom has been working with 2 of my friends for 3 months. They finally just got an offer accepted! They have seriously put in about 10 offers. Hang in there. It is really competitive right now in the housing market. Eventually you will find one

I'm so sorry to hear about your friend. Death is such a hard and strange thing to deal with. Last year, Aug 13th, a friend of mine died too. I found myself thinking about him all the time too. Remebering fun times, bad times, his last moments here, his family. Time heals all. After the funeral I'm sure you will have some closer. I know I did after Bobby's. You will be in my thoughts. As far as baby making....YAY! Congrats. That is awesome. I hope you get it done on the first shot! lol. Ok, that was a little too far.

sdkissez · July 2009

It can happen Bre. I know because it happened to me.

I had only been off the pill for about two weeks before I got pregnant. My hubby jokes that he accomplished the little man in one shot.....=)

breleficent · July 2009

sd- lol! That is awesome. A girl at my work got it in one shot too. They tried for 2 days and then decided that they were going to wait because her FI just got laid off. Welp, a few weeks later Aunt Flow didn't come and she was prego!

breleficent · July 2009

*she IS prego.

NikRenee22109 · July 2009

Thanks guys! I haven't experienced death too much, I have only had one person I was close with die, but this has been much harder on me.Amber- I never knew about shutting the computer off, I usually just leave it on. I am going to start shutting it off from now on. Whoever it is, I don't get why they chose me, I don't really have anything interesting.I am hoping we get it done with one shot. I don't want to get discouraged. That would be so funny if the 3 of us all were pregnant at the same time. I lurked on thebump, and those ladies are mean. I am surely not going over there.

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