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AW? Dad & fiance.

Sometimes I get scared that I may have an underlying Elektra complex. My dad and my fiance are almost the same person, and it's freaky but very sweet.I was asked to bake 50+ cupcakes for a fundraiser sale tomorrow, for Church. Now, maybe I'm a bit stupid, a bit naive and very foreign, but I accepted the challenge. This morning I was going to head to Publix to get all my stuff to start the baking, and both my dad and my fiance stopped me.The both agreed that it's not fair I'm doing all the work for a fundraiser that was never my responsibility. The girl in charge is doing squat, only selling the cupcakes she wants me to make, and it was her job to come up with $$$ for this church project. And I'm doing the dirty (sweet?) job.To them that's not fair, I was okayish with it (50+ is a lot, though!), but they just wouldn't let me leave the house :|Overprotective, much? Lol. I reached the compromise of bringing 30 cupcakes, and even though dad and FI were still all "Meh meh meh it's not fair - taking advantage of you - grgrgr" ... I thought it was cute.Anyone else have that happen to you? Your FI doing things that remind you of your father figure?FI says I remind him of his mother way too much, way too often. Oh well! LOL.

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  • edited December 2011
    Um, my FI and my father are the same person. Not only is it scary (not so much disturbing, because I think no matter what all women base their future husbands off their fathers), but it often makes me say, "what am I getting myself into?!" lol My father is the most amazing man in the entire world to me, but goodness ifsthat man a scatter brain. lol
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  • zobo410zobo410 member
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    edited December 2011
    The only difference between my dad and FI is their looks. My FI even works for my dad. I joke that all day long they just run back and forth to eachother's office saying stupid jokes and high-fiving eachother. It's ridiculous. I secretly love it ;)
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  • edited December 2011
    OMG mine too! Hahaha, my dad and FI just poke fun at me and bond over fixing broken stuff around my house. If we all go out shopping, they end up in the same stores. I tell them they're worse than the Sex & The City girls.They even bought matching D&G sneakers.I am never letting that go. Never! Lol.
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    edited December 2011
    Maybe we could have a blown up picture of that at the wedding? Haha.
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  • edited December 2011
    My dad and FI are very similar too. They give me the same advice, and both have a similar sarcastic sense of humor.
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