Help!! My mom clearly didn't understand what she was getting into when she signed up to pay for the wedding. She keeps adding and adding guests to my list but insists that I stick to the budget she gave me... I really want to have certain things at my wedding that we might not be able to pay for (like limos for the bridal party, the centerpieces I want, etc) if she keeps adding people to the guest list. (Like her brother's second wife's adult children from her previous marriage are kind of unnecessary??? I've never even met those people. UGH!)
Anyway, I am just wondering what people have been spending on the "extra" things, like flowers, save the dates, invitations, transportation, DJ, photographer... everything EXCEPT the wedding dress, wedding rings, venue fees, food, and drink I guess??