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So Im married but I wasnt happy with my wedding...

lynevanslynevans
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in Indiana
So I keep telling my husband that I want a do-over wedding. I wasnt happy with it at all nothing went wrong really i guess but nothing exactly went as planned either. We forgot a ton of pictures that needed to be taken hardly got any of the bridal party together. We had so many people not show up at all it was really sad I wish we would have knew about them and then for all the ones that left immediately after eating that was so rude we had to recruit strangers off the street so we wouldnt be by ourselves and our wedding party it was very sad i wanted the party to last at least till 10 at night we were done at 8 thats pushing it a least an hour. So I really want to do it over but I dont it bothers me a lot and it makes me sad taht all the time and money and effort we put into our wedding wasnt fulfilled with the wedding I had been dreaming up in my head. Vent over....
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Re: So Im married but I wasnt happy with my wedding...

  • jonsmeshondrajonsmeshondra
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    edited December 2011
    WOW! I dont know what to say. Sorry things didnt go as planned. But try to remember, you did marry the person that you want spend your life with. That's the most important thing of all!!
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  • lynevanslynevans
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    edited December 2011
    Yes that was most important. I am very happy with the ceremony for the most part but the rest of it was just hard to handle. Anyway,
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  • Spim7Spim7
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    edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry. But at least you've got your husband now. It's amazing how people take weddings so lightly have no regard for how much is spent just on providing them meals and other things so that they enjoy the day as much as you're supposed to.
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  • Chrissy3321Chrissy3321
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    edited December 2011
    I bet you can think of some great things about the day!  Those are what you need to focus on.We also had a bunch of people rsvp yes and not come.  Money down the drain, but what can you do?  You look great in your picture!
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  • kelly910kelly910
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    edited December 2011
    So sorry to hear this! I can't imagine being that disappointed after months of planning and being excited. But PP are correct...you did get married! Don't think about a do-over wedding...instead just focus on the fact that you are married to your husband and maybe down the road you can plan a renewal.
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  • Married678Married678 member
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    edited December 2011
    Sorry! I know the feeling! I don't care for a do over but, none the same I understand the pain! My cause for problems was due to the weather (flood of 2008, anyone?!) and people driving for hours trying to get to our wedding due to road blocks, etc. I'm sorry your wedding didn't turn out the way you had dreamed it would. Maybe when you see the pictures you'll feel better?!
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  • sabrandesabrande
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    edited December 2011
    i'm sure it sucks to do all of that planning and feel like it didn't go how you wanted. at least you married the man you love and that's most important. did people leave after dinner because of the music or something? do you think your vendors could have helped at all?you look pretty in your pic!
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