I think I'm going to go nuts shortly. I just want to be done and not worry about these ridiculous details.Anyway, at an American wedding, you usually just block off a few rows for grandparents and aunts and uncles, and everyone knows what to do. Easy peasy. (Hm, never actually used this phrase before.)FMIL wants to place individual seat cards assigning all her family members to specific seats in the first few rows so a) random guests won't sit there despite the "reserved" sign, and b) the young children won't take the first row and "horribly offend" the old uncle who now can't fit into the prized seat he is entitled to. I think this is ridiculous and I'm exhausted. Also, apparently the various uncles have to be seated in a certain order in the front row (all at their own tables of course) at the reception, but that puts some of them too close to the band's speakers ... so she's trying to reconfigure the entire room one week before the wedding. I told her no.