ok so this is my first post, i usually try to think things through myself, but I feel I really need some opinions/thoughts from fellow knotties. My older sister and I were never really close, but i asked her to be my MOH because she's my sister and I knew she would be hurt/upset if I didn't, but now she is giving me SUCH a hard time about everything. I don't know if she's jealous because I'm getting married before her, or what, but I feel like she is always trying to point things out about the wedding to try to make me feel bad. She gives me a hard time about the colors I chose, she has to point out that no one will come to my wedding if I have too far (I currently live in another state than my fam), makes me feel bad that I wanted to have a smaller budget instead of going all out, and says things like, "if i HAVE to be your MOH, I guess I'll through you a bridal shower, but no bacherlorette party because you're a prude". I wish I had her support and help, but instead she gives me more stress than I need.And it sucks because when I asked my two best friends to be my bridesmaids, they were so happy and honored, but when I asked my sister to be my MOH she just said, "I guess".
The fact that she didn't even care kind of hurt my feelings.What should I do? Should I confront her about how she makes me feel? I hate fighting, but I feel like she just wanted to fight with me (I want to tell her to grow up, we're not kids anymore!).Or should I demote her and pick another MOH or just have no MOH? (I don't think this would be nice though, I don't want to cause any drama.)