Man, can I first just say I don't know what I would do without the help of all you ladies! I love being able to throw my thoughts and ideas around! I'm not the best at making decisions, so everybody has really been a big help thusfar!
Onward to my question: I want to make sure I have enough food around to keep my guests happy and relatively full, without breaking the bank. I'm not doing a plated dinner (not my style) and I would really prefer more stations and set up displays versus a regular buffet, which is what I've seen at most of the weddings I've been to.
I'm trying to decide how many stations there need to be, if there will also be some dips, displays and hors dourves out and around. Of course there will also be the cake (most likely a bridal and a grooms cake). I know that at the two caterers I'm debating between I have the option of a mashed potato/sweet potato bar (which is my FAVORITE, in case you havent read my other posts). There are other options like salad bars, pasta bars, and of course the normal carving station. My question is, how much food would you think necessary to keep people full and happy. I don't want stuffed and sluggish, because I plan on PARTYING it up with lots of dancing.
I've been to weddings where there was SO MUCH FOOD it was unneeded, then I've also been to a wedding where there was just one station and cake for a 8 oclock reception, and I was starved (partly becuase I was involved and didn't get to eat beforehand because of helping set up stuff).
So, where is a good middle ground?