Hello, Please help me. I live down here in Baltimore. My mom is in the Boston area (were I am from) My aunt kept saying she wanted to help me with stuff, I decided that I would take her with me to the florist appointment (only to shut her up). At the end of the appointment she said with all that I am doing you will owe me a purse. She sends me wedding ideas but since we do not have the same taste I just reply cute and delete because I do not want to be mean. Well my mom got mad that I was including her sister and not her, So she decided her job was making sure my brother s were all set with their suits etc... I feel they are all grown they are allset, but whatever; today she told me my brothers are stressing her and she better get a good gift for helping me. I told her she is doing the mother of the bride role. My brothers said my mom is annoying them so whenever they have a wedding question they ask me. I have helped people in the past with weddings and never expected anything. Also I said I want people to relax and have fun at the reception, I get complaints. I hate weddings in which one runs around so much they do not get to enjoy themselves. So my plan is to cut pennies so I can pay for a “day of” person. Please explain why is it everything I do I get a complaint. We are paying for our wedding ourselves so I do not want to feel like I have to get my folks a gift, I guess I am being rude.Is this normal wedding planning stuff?