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Check with RSVP?

Jamie310Jamie310
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in Massachusetts-Boston
So I have been getting RSVPs back and I just got one today that they rsvped that they can not come, but they put a check in it. Is that normal? I don't even know what to think, I am so befuddled.
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Re: Check with RSVP?

  • jenwindyjenwindy
    500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    I don't see anything unusual here? DH and I have given wedding gift checks with our decline response in the past. We also received checks from guests who could not attend.
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  • october010brideoctober010bride
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Nothing weird with that at all. It's customery to send a gift (usually not too large) along with a decline. So I would just cash the check and send a thank you.
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  • jenvaletjenvalet member
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    edited December 2011
    We got a few of those.
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  • Jamie310Jamie310
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    edited December 2011
    Oh, ok. I had never heard of this, so I was a little confused when I got it. To me it seems weird. If I couldn't go I would just send a card separate from the RSVP.
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  • foolforfoodfoolforfood
    500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    To me it seems weird. If I couldn't go I would just send a card separate from the RSVP. How it that weird?  I assume the person is not that close that you?  In that situation, it's kind of awkward getting the B&G a gooey wedding card.  Plus, it saves postage and trees.
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